Why Language Loves to Differentiate Sex

Why Language Loves to Differentiate Sex

Sexual differentiation in language has played a fundamental role in communicating society's gender roles throughout history. Is erasing these distinctions due to modern sensitivities truly liberating, or does it risk veiling deeper truths?

Vince Vanguard

Vince Vanguard

Ever wondered why your grandmother’s grammar book looks like it has a “Men Only” sign, accepting none of today’s political correctness? When you dig into sexual differentiation in language, it’s a reminder that words don’t just fall from the sky, they are concocted and stitched together with the threads of culture, history, and biology. Throughout history, English has distinguished between the sexes to address who we are, what roles we play, and why we matter. So buckle up, because the language ride won’t be as neutral as a neutral pronoun!

First up, medieval English already started this gender parade. Beowulf didn’t pause to check if Grendel was genderfluid. In days when kings ruled and queens advised, the language naturally had to distinguish between lords and ladies. English said, 'Let's make sure everyone knows who’s who,' and laid down the rules. Men were 'he,' women were 'she,' and everyone seemed to get the gist of it until recently. This wasn’t just about naming; it was about placing people in societal roles essential for functioning—be it dividing labor or lineage. Language mirrored the times, and like any other historical institution, it resisted change.

Now, zoom into the Renaissance, a time when English speakers weren’t exactly renowned for gender sensitivity. Plays by Shakespeare didn’t shy away from assigning heroes and heroines their rightful places. Men were 'he,' getting all the action, and women were 'she,' playing the love interests. Simple, right? Language didn’t complicate matters with 21 modern pronouns. Back then, when someone walked on stage, everyone knew where they stood. The audience wasn’t forced into the ‘I wonder what pronoun Hamlet prefers’ guessing game.

Fast forward to the Victorian era, that bastion of formal speech, where your social standing depended on knowing when to call someone 'Madam' or 'Sir.' Victorians saw no need for linguistic revolutions in gender; their lives were orderly and so was their language. To butcher binary gender with neutral nonsense was outlandish. English preserved categories because they were meaningful. Navigating society meant knowing who to bow or who to curtsy to, for heaven’s sake.

Then came the suffragettes, those women who dared to make language and laws change. Even then, while advocating equality, language remained traditional. A woman became 'Chairman' without a second thought, and the language took it in its stride. The structure of language didn’t necessitate dismantling; it just needed a bit of bending. They knew there were men, there were women, and roles could indeed overlap without everything having to merge into mysterious, undefined pronouns.

Jump to today, and you’ll find language at the crossroads of a gender blender. Calls for redefining the linguistic lines have risen loud and clear. Singular 'They' is fast moving from the grammatically grotesque section of textbooks to mainstream media. The aim? To erase anything as quaint as traditional sexual differentiation in language, to leave behind a homogeneous soup where linguistic gender disappears. But let’s talk reality—who really benefits from language standing in for social equality?

While modern tongues argue over pronouns, couldn’t language differentiation actually be a tool of clarity? This was a handy little feature designed for easy communication—unlike the verbal gymnastics now popularized as 'inclusive.' Imagine if a computer code ignored syntax rules. Would you trust your bank account numbers with it? Language exists to serve clarity, not agendas.

And lest we forget the biological fact that male and female do mean different things biologically, historically, every way you slice it. Women and men aren’t interchangeable in the real world, so why do words need to pretend they could be? Language, like biology, delineates because it helps society organize, categorize, and yes, work efficiently.

Dismantling sexual differentiation in language doesn’t equate to fixing inequalities. Just because you force language to be gender-neutral doesn’t mean medical science, sports, or family roles magically become free of their inherent gendered structures. Words reflect something deeper, something that gestures at the order of nature, of who we have always been.

Language was built not only as a house of communication but as a monument to roles that have driven civilizations forward. Ignoring ancient linguistic distinctions for some fleeting sense of fairness might end up as nonsensical as creating a new color by mixing all colors until you're just left with gray. It’s time we question if erasing language distinctions truly elevates society, or simply masks uncomfortable truths beneath a veneer of equality. If everyone talks the same, will we lose sight of what needs to be said? It's something to ponder, isn't it?